My fiance is an alcoholic and he has said some stupid and some funny things because of it. The latest being alarming. Yesterday he was pushing me hard to have sex and I kept saying no. He then said he was going to rape me if I didn't sleep with him. I don't think he would actually do it, but I gave in shortly after. He then had me give him oral, which I didn't really want to do. When I told my friend about it she said it was still rape. Is she right? Was I raped? He didn't hurt me.