Ok, I understand better, so it isn't that he is a great guy in the dreams, just not at his worst.

The whole comment about a woman who HAS to work has failed, how about no, the MAN has failed to provide for his family!! LOL!

I get a very clear picture of him, I had a chauvinistic uncle. He would make his wife get up to get him a beer, wait on him had and foot and was a complete sexist pig. I am pretty sure he hit her too. He was horrible to be around, people quit associating with him.

That would be really hard to deal with him popping up in dreams, you cant even control that! I am so sorry!