@Khoine you didn't sound harsh at all. I value an honest perspective. I am the one who has asked for a divorce but he's the one who said as long as we're married and living in the same house that we shouldn't pursue other people. And I know this will make everything think "What?" but we are still intimate and act almost as if we're still a couple. But the divorce will happen one way or another and he knows very well where my feelings lie. With that being said he demands intimacy still. If I had it my way we wouldn't be at all because of how I feel. If we aren't he gets an attitude, it becomes tense and he won't help me with anything around the house nor clean up after himself which he hardly does to begin with. And I am in the wrong for reading what I did read.

@RxQueen875 That's a good way of seeing it. I didn't think of it that way. The divorce is a long time coming, it's just a matter of being able to afford it (and agreeing on everything, especially when it concerns our 2 kids).