TerriLynn, oh yeah. My dad was the guy who spent half his time in the kitchen but wouldn't know where to find a single thing in there.

Rainbow, so it will go on. I've have dreams where I've screamed at him before, but I don't want to, it upsets me. On the other hand, I hate when I just sit there complacently. The most I can hope for is for it to not have the emotional payload any longer. Patience is a virtue.