What you have been going through at your new place sounds like quite some experiences. You haven't been there long enough for all that horrible stuff to hit you yet....& yet it has.

I pray that I never have a cat in the truck motor problem......I can't imagine handling something like that....I have a very very low yuck tollerance & can't handle things like that. I was having a hard enough time dealing with the really dead raccoon that Leo brought home to me.....can't imagine dealing with that.

Sounds like you have a nice group of people from the church to help you clean up the yard. That does feel great when someone just comes & does something without having to be asked. I know I got a call from my friend on Monday, telling me that he finished mowing my 2+ acres around the house & weed eated all the weeds that had been growing all the time I was there & it hadn't bubbled up to the top of my to do list before I left. I was in tears after he hung up, realizing how much people care & are willing to go out of their way to help.

At least you have that good to appreciate considering what that person did with your bank account. I know I have been very cautious with my accounts after what you went through.....that was a lesson for me too....added to the one I got from the trauma with my Mother. I am not ok with trusting anyone with financial information at all!!!!!!

It is good you have found a good pdoc.....I don't know what I am going to do about that, or my psychologist....or my pain specialist.....that is still up in the air, so I know what a relief it must be for you to have found one that you can talk to.

Fresh eggs are the best.....sounds like you have a really nice "brokedown" hacienda to live in even with all the hassles. Hope as you get more settled, that everything will quiet down.....but I know for me, keeping up with all the responsibilities by myself will probably be more than one person can really handle....but I know I am going to try just like you are doing......we can commiserate together in the things we need help getting done.

Sit back, breathe, & enjoy your soft hymilayan kitty until you find a good home for him.
Debbie