i wish my husband wouldn't smoke weed, but i have to add it seems to help him relax and he probably never go off of it. he smokes every day and i even like it when he's high as he gets unstressed and it helps me get along with him better too. he gets in a really good mood, and i like him on it. i guess i'm no help in discouraging it. i myself believe it does help people who need it. that is his medication as i see it, and he doesn't usually drink alcohol either. oh well i guess i can live with it.