It sounds like your friend may have been BPD....it sounds like, because you weren't as available, she felt abandoned. And that generally causes emotional outbursts and lashing out in inappropriate rage. That's just my guess anyway, obviously I can't diagnose that woman, but I would say that is pretty unstable emotional behavior in reaction to you being less available.

You certainly are not a sociopathic *****. From what you said, such an accusation doesn't even make sense. I don't think this woman has ever met a real sociopath. Otherwise she wouldn't have made that mistake.

I've personally been having faith issues too. Negative thoughts in my head that are coming between what I believe and the faith I have been pursing for a long time now. And its from what other people have said to me as well. Freedom of religion does not mean your free to pursue any type of spirituality. There are racial biases. That is my own observation anyway. The spiritual path that really calls to me is one I can't follow because of my race, and I have faced discrimination over it. And a serious of other negative experiences this past year has kind of killed so much of my will to practice a faith. What people do and say can ruin so many things for us, if we let them.

Don't let that woman ruin your spiritual experience. And maybe someday I won't let my past experiences ruin mine.