For what ever reason...I seem to be more stable around my kids...

Having an issue that the can trigger is tough...telling your husband was a big step...

The only thing that comes to mind was the discover of a video called "1-2-3 Magic"...Discovered when my first was just turning 2 (9 years ago). Part of the video talks about removing emotion or "little adulting a child"...if this doesn't make sense I can probably give more details if this is something you are interested in.

I really don't know if it was that concept that keeps me so ground around the children or not...I used to have extreme emotional intensity with my former wife...only on rare occasions does it happen with the children...

You seem to have a strong marraige...if you were able to go to your husband to discuss this...

I guess I'm starting to babble...sorry that a BP day got the best of you...