I mean we have our fair share of issues but we have always been very close we can talk about anything and we solve our problems together or go to couples therapy if we can't figure it out on our own but I can tell it's definitely something that is going on with in me and not the relationship itself because it has happened with everyone I've dated and I have been abused in the past which until recently I wasn't able to even verbalize that I was abused, I would just say I have "sex issues" so I'm wondering if it's the fact that I've never dealt with any of that. I guess I've always been the type to think if I don't speak about the bad stuff and push it away from my thoughts and try to stay positive it will go away.