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Petunia said:
I took these from your post. (the one Jan said to bring in) It's what I "saw" you were trying to say.

Create a safe environment.

Don't push too hard or too fast.

I don't want you to just listen to me--I want you to "hear" me.

Teach me coping mechanisms.

These things will help me learn to trust you.

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Petunia, that's what I was trying to say. Not very concise though. I suck for making sense sometimes.

((((((((((((((Petunia)))))))))))))))))

((((((((((((January)))))))))))))))))))

I'll try to tell him all this stuff. Thank you both.