I can relate to this. I also have a history of abuse and reading your post is like looking back in time to my life. It was very frustrating and even after seeing therapists, I couldn't open up and work through those issues to really make progress. But I eventually moved past it and am able to be comfortable with my sex life and have a desire for it again. Reaching out on here is a step in the right direction! I can understand the guilt you may be feeling toward your partner. It is uncomfortable. It was one of those things that had to take its course. Seeing a therapist may still be advisable or even looking in to a couples retreat to enhance the bond between yourself and your partner. In some aspects,I had to start over and without a history of sexless nights hanging over my head.

Best of luck!!!!

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