Hi Jakers,

I believe you do need support at some level to get you in a positive mindset and to work on your motivation. Counselling would be the first step to becoming well.

As for your (naturally perceived) Social and Professional issues, you are only 20, experience in lifeskills for you are still to be learned and earned. Do not worry unduly, for every day you spend at work, truly apply yourself and the work will become easier, respect will be earned and confidence will grow.

The same applies to your Personal life. You need to put less pressure on yourself, involve yourself with Social Groups that interest you - sports, photography, anything tangible that involves interaction. Relationships will evolve organically as you gain more social skills - do not beat yourself up over it.

I am sure you are in a position where, with the right guidance and effort, your youthfulness will stand you in good stead to make a full recovery.

Take control of your life, live, enjoy,

Dave.