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Originally Posted by passionfruit3
To your questions i requsted to stop but he kept trying to come onto me at the time i thought when you told someone no that was as far as it went but it didn't it continued and thats were i got confused didn't know how to proceed so i let it happen and im ashamed. I have anger for my cousin hes very violent busted my cousins nose and stuck his tounge in her mouth but its due to his past life i learned recently his father showed him porn as a child and beat him apart of me feels like something should be done about my cousins father since my cousins sixteen but i don't want to cause trouble and as much as im angry with my cousin i would not want to see him in foster care
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Ok - the fact that you said no, takes the blame off of you - it is easy to see how anything past that would b confusing for a 14yr old to know what to do. As hard as this is for you to hear - he really cannot be held totally accountable either bc of his age, he could not have known the significance of what he was doing - or the harm it could cause. When young kids do things like that it is usually bc of some kind of sexual abuse going on in their life - n the abuser is the one to be held fully accountable. Does that all make sense?