As a former single parent years ago, I went thru something similar. Looking back, I know that my desire to not be alone clouded my better judgment. There are many ppl who I'm sure will love you and your son. You are a package deal. If someone says they want you but not your son... move on. They are not right for you and staying with them thinking in time they will warm up to your kid is only setting yourself up for further possible pain. Keep your head up and keep smiling... The right person for you is out there somewhere!