At times I feel quite similarly to you Endless, and think your parents are really doing you a disservice by assuming mental health issues are culturally prejudiced.
Maybe try to find some aspd support online until you are old enough to be able to seek help for yourself, because I personally think it would be a tragedy for a young person to wind up in a ward or prison because the system failed them.
Perhaps exercises to work on self control might help, so you are less likely to act on those impulses?