I am so sorry for this. Just remember it could also be has his own problems too. My ex-spouse left and said one reason was I had too many problems, but I am sorry, it was weak of him because he had a lot of problems too, and I would never ever have left him for that reason. Notice how many people on this site are fully supported by their partners. Not all partners leave. I think I am finally getting over it. I had a long marriage and my ex was often supportive. Take special care of yourself. Now is the time to really firm up your own personal support network. It's hard, but you can do it. Hope you use PC. I love it here. Good luck.