I'm leaving my partner of 8 years because of no support in any of my conditions. It's gone from I'm faking it to mess with her, or she has it worse (even though she's like not got a DX or even a disorder).

All this didn't come to light till about 4 years ago, 4 years into our marriage.

With that kind of support from your husband, I'd make it mutual.

Good luck!