My T has an excellent memory and I know he has no time to go through my notes beforehand because he has an appointment with a DBT group member first thing, then facilitates our group, then sees another member directly after that, and directly before me.


Its helpful that he remembers stuff I "forgot" we talked about, because I tend to "check out" sometimes, not because my memory sucks.


If he asked me things repeatedly that would be a deal breaker, I don't have time to waste refreshing someone's memory. If he's memory sucked as bad as your T's I would expect him to schedule breaks in between clients to read over my notes.