Yes. She had become annoyed at me sighing all the time - I used to do that a lot - but had never said anything until this one phone session when she said "Let's just jump right in so you don't just sit there sighing." I was a bit taken aback, as she usually has the patience of a saint (literally!) but I was (eventually) glad that she had said it. I didn't consciously realize that I was sighing as much as I was. I was using it as a way to avoid feeling and until that day, hadn't realized it!
(Initially when she said it though, I wasn't glad, I wanted to go Stopdog on her and say "Look woman, I'm paying for this time, if I want to sit here and sigh for the whole 25 minutes I will!")
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