I'm in a long-term marriage to an asexual lesbian, who is perfectly content with a no-sex marriage and without looking outside the marriage for a lesbian lover. We share a great deal, and have had a good life together (no children) other than in the area of sex and desire. So my question is: are there any natural ways (diet, herbal teas) to lose libido? It's more than slightly weird to be at a time of life when many other men my age are desperately seeking to revive or maintain their libido - and I would be so much happier and more at peace without mine!