I don't know if annoyed is the proper word. I know I can be frustrating though. We have discussed that she often finds people who have certain educational backgrounds tend to explain their way through things. They convince themselves and even her of things that aren't necessarily accurate so it is harder for her.

She recently mentioned when something negative happens to me I tend to go down a negative path where that becomes my focus. It is hard for her to get me to see anything else...So I am sure it is frustrating. At first I was upset with her for saying it. Then I realized ssh had a point. So I an really working on it.