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Originally Posted by lima01
When will people learn to live with the family you have . Tv has made us all think there are these perfect families . Everybody has problems, its hard to trade with another family if you know all the problems .
even the real tv families had big problems . The Kennedy's had theirs the Queen of england has her problem family . Find the good in your own family and get the best out of it when you can . Avoid the worst parts but forgive the rest . It won't be around very long so deal with it .
I have to tell myself the same thing constantly .
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Well, when I married I found my now ex's family much more enjoyable than mine, and had many years of pleasure being a part of that family. Sadly, it ended with the divorce. So I am thrown back on my family again, and it is just a difficult family system, filled with difficult personalities --- it's better to disengage. Some families are kinder than other families. That's just reality.