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Ester my T once said he'd be okay if I wanted to see someone else rather than him.

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Wow, that could be really hurtful, especially if you think therapy is going just fine and that your T is really helping you. I think if I were feeling a T were not really helping me and didn't seem to have the tools to deal with my problems, then I wouldn't be hurt if he/she said that. In fact, I might feel relieved and welcome a referral. But if a T I work with well and think the world of and who I believe is helping me said that, I would be devastated. It would be indicative of a huge disconnect. ((((almedafan))))