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Old Nov 24, 2015, 10:49 PM
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Originally Posted by sjkero View Post
I've said to my T time and time again, "I know I frustrate you, I'm sorry" - (mostly in email ) She usually brushes it off or says to stop apologizing, but recently she responded with "we all have feelings, and the important thing is we work through them." aka she's frustrated. Ding ding. Message received.
I think what she's saying is that it's really no big deal if she occasionally feels frustrated. The message for you to receive is "don't be so self-effacing," not "stop annoying me." What do you imagine would be the consequence of her feeling frustrated?