It's misleading, and kind of unfair, in a sense. I mean, I have struggled to have my own identity my entire life, but someone I'm always attached to that part of my life I want to just get away from. I suppose, though, given what a diagnosis is meant for amongst professionals, my claim of unfairness is, in and of itself, unfair, in a way. I'm sounding silly.

The reason I refuse the "secondary" is because it makes it feel more inferior. I have an inferiority complex, I reckon, and if I tell someone who doesn't full "get it," suppose they'll say "that's it?" And I'll go ham just like that.

It's all a mind game, really, and yes, I agree with it. Your definition was the easiest to understand without me throwing a temper tantrum for feeling inferior and not getting my way. Sometimes, worse isn't the best, like my mind likes to think.