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Originally Posted by ManOfConstantSorrow
I rather thought this is normal. One only clicks with a select few, often only one or two, and with every one else it is merely the commonplace pleasantries that lubricate social interaction. No doubt you will meet someone suitable bye and bye.
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I've always believed this too. Most people have merely been bodies to me and I welcomed them when they were available and wasn't overly upset when they weren't. People were good enough just being them, but something has changed this year. It's like that dynamic is no longer good enough for me. Maybe I am being judgmental, but I feel like I've put in my time with mediocre friendships and if it isn't going to be grande I don't want to bother.
My fiance and I are in a strange spot in life in that yes, we are Christians, but newly active Christians (me more so than him) so we don't have a church or church group. I'm not sure I want to enter the lifestyle completely as we won't be a good fit there. But we're not a good fit outside of it, either. We're somewhere in the middle.
I guess I'll just have to make a decision about how nI want to spend my time and embrace the solidarity until then?