"Society does not condone different sexual appetites. Which is why we stay in the dark. Most think it's from a bad past experience."

So true. I love kink and part of the community. I love having my hair pulled and being called a slut in the bedroom also love being choked. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you're consenting adults. If you decide to meet this guy, I'd lay out things to negotiate before ****ing in the bedroom.