I've been married 15 years and am finally coming to the realization that, he shouldn't be my whole life. What if something were to happen to him? Or if I decide to end my marriage
Where would that leave me emotionally.
I only mention this because if my husband were to leave I would be devastated but I would
have to carry on. I'm just doing tiny steps right now to be self sufficient but with that being said you could try counselling.
If he won't do it you could go to counselling yourself
BIG HUG