i will always do my best to fit in with other people . i dont want them making trouble for my son . it is just that they are such a normal family and mine is so ****ed up .i want the best for my son . it would be great for him to be part of this normal loving family . not one that treats him like a failure because he decided not to make a career out of the military ,or thinks he is always crap compared to the other grandchildren just because he is my child . of course ill do anything to allow this to happen but it hurts so bad at the same time . i know he is 24 now and is responsible for his decisions .but it is hard to be loosing my son even if it is the best thing for him .i think the only reason he had her parents invite us is because he would feel bad .