Don't allow him/her to get too relational with you about herself and family....That way you don't have to create an alter for that situation...You can block that by speaking about you or the system....If its only what you had for dinner last night night.....I'm not sure if you experience alters in most the way I do...I'm not even sure where you are on your journey, but no therapist can create dissociative identity disorder....Now there are therapist that will take approach starting off that is too intimidating for those really quiet clients.....Hopefully your therapist isn't eager to make you into a beautiful person or too passionate about her job....She can tell you psycho educate you but its up to you to accept your memories...I'm mean who else do you have to convince....Interested to know what you meant by therapist creating dissociative identity disorder....I'm sure the longer your there your memories will start to reveal itself you and will know before your diagnoses where ur switches and memories where...Most people go undetected and something usually puts them in therapy, then it gets worse as the host is revealed the inner world in a bountiful amount. Yea, its a hellva of label and people blame therapist for creating (creating scenes to trigger memory)....Its unfortunately and extremely complex to explain...I have people invalidating me for this very same reason that I can't explain every component. ...Just make sure if there is role playing that its clearing defined....Google therapist abuse and how therapist abuse their clients. I'm not talking about the obvious sex with a therapist, but their are other ways.