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Originally Posted by Cinnamon_Stick
I feel so connected to my T during our sessions. It feels so good. She really "gets" me. When I leave, I don't feel it as strongly and I crave it. I want to be with her in her safe room all the time.
Does anyone else feel like this? How do you deal with it when you are not in session?
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I did feel like this with ex T. I read something that said our primitive brains are wired to desire proximity with attachment figures. So if you have a strong attachment to T, seems it is not only normal to want proximity but would be strange to not feel this way. Especially if you lacked this in early life.
What's concerning to me is whether this dynamic will become a trap for the client.