I do Swagbucks - Free Gift Cards for Paid Surveys and More online to earn money. I make $25-$50/month although you can make more (some people a lot more) if you put more time into it. It is a valid site and does payout. It's also good about giving you credit if you complain if you aren't credited for something (that's a key thing to know, always complain because they nearly always fix it).

It sounds like you just have so many things going on right now that it is hard to know where to start. I think that if you can the SSDI is a good place to start. If you are lucky it takes a few months but I'm sure you know it can take longer. So the sooner you apply the better. Hopefully you'll be like me and approved in 3 months time. You need your providers to write good, full assessments so it is best to have that done before you change therapists if you can handle it (I know it is overwhelming. But the initial thing really isn't bad at all and it does sound like you need the income badly.) The sicker your therapist makes you sound the more likely you are to be approved quickly. You said you were in the hospital in August, that will help you too in getting approved.

I'm sorry that life is so overwhelming right now. I hope that you are able to find some small ways for it to improve soon.