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pinksoil said:
How unsafe do you feel?

Yikes.

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That question would certainly do nothing to make me feel safer. Yikes is right! Sometimes my T asks, "what can I do to make it safe for you here?"

Once, very early in therapy, I was sharing a dream about me and T. He asked what it was I wanted from him in our interchange in the dream. Did I want his understanding, his love, something else? This was only our 5th session and he's asking me if I want his love? YIKES!