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Originally Posted by Cinnamon_Stick
I feel so connected to my T during our sessions. It feels so good. She really "gets" me. When I leave, I don't feel it as strongly and I crave it. I want to be with her in her safe room all the time.
Does anyone else feel like this? How do you deal with it when you are not in session?
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I absolutely feel this way.
Sometimes she lets me borrow a knickknack from her office.
I reread her emails and/or listen to her voice mails.
If things are really tough or if I'm extra anxious when I go to sleep, I pretend (visualize) I am going to sleep on her couch...and that she is near. I've told her about this and she thinks it's a great idea.
I haven't asked her if we can record sessions yet. I have an app on my iPad that I could use but I'm not sure if our voices would be loud enough to record properly. I may ask her if we can try it.
She lets me call and email but I am giving her some space around our Thanksgiving holiday. If something terrible would happen- I would phone or email her as she is taking her own call.
Yes, I definitely miss the safety of her presence.