I'm confused about situations I get myself into. I have a 56 year old handsome hubby that loves to flirt. It does bother me and I get anxious when we go to gatherings, parties, bars, etc because he always heads for groups of women and starts conversations with them. I usually begin chatting with other women and before I know it, flirting hubby forgets about me and pretty much ignores me. Well tonight a friend of mine intervened and said 'aren't you with _____?' because her friend was drunk and all over my hubby. She was also with her boy friend and he said something too. Hubby simply lives for these events, or so it seems. I have mentioned it and told him that people tell me 'oh, your hubby is VERY friendly'. The terrible thing is that this is how we got together. I thought I was special to him. He made me feel good with his attention and kindness. I fell in love with him and so many people warned me. In the beginning, for about a year, we didn't attend many outings or social events together. So I had no idea how he behaved. But I do always talk to him about his over friendliness. We had a terrible argument about his behavior and that I did not want to be with him any more since all he can do is flirt and ignore me when we go out. I would like any advice on his comment: " you should have come over and claimed me". What? I said 'well, that will never happen, that's high school behavior'.
Am I wrong? Please advise me, I'm on the way out.