Hi there,

I'm really puzzled about the actions of my former very N trait partner. The relationship broke down about 6 months ago to the point of no return but I also was employed by him. I kept my job and minded my own business but he was displaying very toxic behaviour not towards me but around me where I could witness it. I decided to quit - the contract I was on runs out end of January 2015. I asked for my letter of reference and my letter of dismissal on the spot - he turned around and said he would pay me until the end of the contract as agreed but not to bother coming to work again.

He has been paying me fortnightly. I'm really puzzled? He is not the type to pay someone to do nothing? I have had no contact nor have I wanted to make contact with him. Any insights would be greatly appreciated :-)