Thank you! My hubs and I have not had counseling and it could potentially do a great deal of good. However, he isn't the only culprit here. In fact, it was my mother who sparked this post. I called her upset and in tears and she told me to write down my blessings. I told her I shared my blessings when I prayed and that I never hear her count her blessings to me either. She said, yes, but I don't call you frequently to complain either. When I got off the phone, I could entirely see her point so I called her back, again in tears, to ask if she is always frustrated with me because perhaps I do complain too much. She said no, she is never frustrated with me for that but that she is frustrated with me when I just sit on the couch and do nothing because not having the ability to put one foot in front of the other and get things done is just and excuse.