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Old Nov 27, 2015, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted by gayleggg View Post
I have trouble getting off the couch to. Sounds to me like you did a lot being in a depressed state. My husband wishes I would do more but understands when I can't. I'm lucky he understands. Your husband just doesn't understand how taxing it can be to feed the kids and do the dishes. Have the two of you been to counseling together by any chance? If not it might be a good idea.

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Thank you! My hubs and I have not had counseling and it could potentially do a great deal of good. However, he isn't the only culprit here. In fact, it was my mother who sparked this post. I called her upset and in tears and she told me to write down my blessings. I told her I shared my blessings when I prayed and that I never hear her count her blessings to me either. She said, yes, but I don't call you frequently to complain either. When I got off the phone, I could entirely see her point so I called her back, again in tears, to ask if she is always frustrated with me because perhaps I do complain too much. She said no, she is never frustrated with me for that but that she is frustrated with me when I just sit on the couch and do nothing because not having the ability to put one foot in front of the other and get things done is just and excuse.
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