Point taken. However, to be fair, he really can't physically help that he can only last that long when he's inside me. And it's not like he doesn't care. This actually upsets him more than me. So I don't think it's necessarily cruel that he lasts that long. It may be more cruel that he hasn't done anything significant to fix the issue on his own, but then again anxiety is preventing him from seeing a doctor and I understand what that's like.