I'm usually hypo but I'm going through a severe depression at the moment. I've been on the couch for days. I would always be showered by now but can't. I haven't been like this in years. My husband is very understanding, but he keeps asking questions that I just don't have the answers to. He keeps asking "why are you like this?" I don't know I reply. I can tell he is getting frustrated. I know he will do my chores around the house if I ask him to, and will not be angry. I can tell my BP is taking a toll on him, but I'm really trying. I just don't have the skills to get out of this rut because this never happens to me. I'm sorry that you are going through this. I'm sure it makes you feel lonely, I am right now.