Thank you, Ruari.

You made a lot of good points and made me think. I decided NOT to go to Florida when I told him that I have to think about it and he got nasty and snarky with me in a way I've never seen him act (I think he's getting brainwashed).

I'm willing to accept the headache if I see him standing up for. If not, i'll move on.

Btw, I laughed out loud about the public shaming thing.