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Old Nov 28, 2015, 03:39 PM
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I would literally be in Florida from Saturday afternoon until Sunday afternoon. His mom can have the party without him, she just doesn't want to. The point is that I want to spend time alone with him. We're both very busy people. On top of grading, I physically have to be at school at 9 AM Monday morning. I live an hour away.

It's probably worth mentioning that I live in an impoverished, freezing apartment, in a neighborhood with gang activity. In order to get to my Buick-sized room, I'm required to walk from my car (if I'm lucky to get parking) through a back alley, up slippery stairs, past a dog who broke a window trying to attack me, through a pitch black-littered hallway that has a broken light in it (that my landlord won't fix), and deal with a frequently black-out drunk roommate whom blasts music so loudly that I can hear him with my headphones on.

Seeing as I can't always find parking on the street (my city is the traffic capitol of the US, staying at my place affects my job in many ways.

My life is stranger than fiction. It's worth noting that I am willing to pay utilities at his if requested and that I stay with him at his request. He and I are very confused about his roommates' behavior because we've had roommates have their significant others' over a lot and we've never cared. In fact, this is a pretty common practice for millenniuls.

I'm worried that if I don't get sleep, I'll have mood swings. We're used to seeing each other a lot and share groceries, so not staying with him would affect our relationship. I don't want to come home to people who dislike me everyday, but I feel that my bf pays for the space and is entitled to do as he pleases with it.

I'm currently working on driving to a nearby state to get medicine sooner.

Anyway, I'm not trying to sound ungrateful. Thank you for bouncing ideas off of my head. It's helpful to know how people who may disagree with you think.

Good to hear from you to, the poster formerly known as Hankster.
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