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Originally Posted by Permacultural
Only I can sign myself into a loan, no matter what the pressure.
"I'm sorry, but I can't" is my preferred way of saying "no". No explanations, no profuse apologies. People ask "why not?" and I give them the broken record technique, "I'm sorry, but I just can't".
Eventually, they get it.
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What scares me is that my in-laws are the ones that would be taking out the loan and my fiance would be paying them back. If I can refuse to sign any paperwork, I will but I can't stop my fiance from signing. At least I think that's how they want to do it, I'm confused by the whole deal and I don't want us to get in anything that I don't fully understand. And a lot of it is being conducted behind my back when I'm not present.
I will use the I'm sorry but I can't technique though! It will come in handy especially at work.