Sky, Bebop and Chocolatelover,

I truly appreciate all the insights, different ideas and prayers you are bringing to bear on my present situation.

Historically husband tends to start to get revved up and driven 2 - 3 days after me.

He's feeling pretty old right now at 67, and to make our finances work, he really needs to work for another two years. He refuses to move away from where we are currently living, which is out in the middle of nowhere, which makes finding suitable work all that much harder to do.

Thanks to everyone for letting me whine.

Hugs and thanks,

EJ