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To me, it sounds like you're "worrying" too much about who is doing what to whom and how and whether everyone likes it. If you were "taught" a crummy way to interact it is going to be a long time before you can interact in any other way as it is all a process!

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Thanks Perna. I like your analogies. I know I'm trying really hard to protect myself right now - gotta work on the defensiveness thing. I know it...