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Originally Posted by divine1966
No it's not generational or age related.You are hanging out with a wrong crowd.
My daughter and my nephews and their significant others and their friends all are interested in way more in life than sex and their bodies. They are in their 20s.
Don't associate with the type. Find classier crowd.
When I was your age there were people who wanted just sec and were obsessed with their bodies and it was many years ago. There were also be trashy people and classier people. Just choose your crowd wisely
I often encounter posts from people who state that everyone does drugs or drinks or sleeps around etc No, it's the people they know. Not everyone.
You are still young. At 21 you might want to focus on finding your place in life and far away from trash then everything else will follow.
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Not people..activities. School was a scheduled specific "social activity" lacking physical experiences...remember..repeat..no learning through sharing experiences. For me...school was education books..not forming friendships. Friends were people outdoors sharing physical action experiences. Some experiences such as a museum was an indoor action experience...walking and questions..what do you see...what stands out..what detail. Beach finding shells...do you see pictures in the colors or shapes... Learning Experience = more than table place setting aka sex/drug crowd.
A bowling alley check on open leagues needing players. Meeting strangers while doing something enjoyable leads to more. Two over 40 people never learned bowling...unsure about reactions...found instructions on bowling and fun experiences.
Dating ...someone saying dinner and a movie...no thanks. Food in mouth and talking movies meant stuck in rut no foundation to build sharing.
Find some unknown outdoor action experience you never learned doing then a group doing it and join to learn and meet strangers starting a building foundation. Opening line...as a child I wanted to learn and experience...finding edible wild plants.