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Old Aug 14, 2007, 03:13 AM
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<font color="green">Just cos you write the letter doesn't mean you have to send it. Perhaps just write it out and take it with you to therapy. Just having the words in black and white [or whatever colors you like to print in} seems to help.

If your dad abused you and is now giving you stuff, I would tend to feel that he is trying to appease you - buy you off. That is not respectful or generous,it is manipultive.

{{{{{esther}}}}}}
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