View Single Post
 
Old Nov 29, 2015, 04:19 PM
Anonymous50006
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Quote:
Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey View Post
Is he working through is anxiety? If not, then yes, I'd put some of the blame on him. Don't get me wrong.....its not his fault that he has anxiety, but if he's not willing to do anything to work on the anxiety issue, that's a bit selfish and he doesn't have a right to bring someone into his life and burden them with issues that he just wants to ignore. Just my two cents.
He was working on it and it was improving slowly but steadily but sometimes you take 20 steps back when dealing with anxiety. I understand that since I have anxiety myself and that's happened to me. We've decided to spend the next 3 or so weeks to concentrate on the end of the semester since he's under too much stress from school (actually, I am too). My only concerns are if he's going to be too anxious after taking that long of a break and he's not comfortable seeing a sex therapist until after marriage because of his Catholic upbringing. Hopefully we can come to some sort of compromise where we could see a therapist when we're engaged or he goes and talks to someone on his own (I have my own therapist already).