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Originally Posted by continuosly blue
Maybe I should define what I mean by " home wrecker ". It is a term that isn't used much nowadays but there are other terms used that I won't post here , ( maybe you can guess ).
A home wrecker in my opinion is a woman who knowingly gets involved with a married man
either with or without a family. In my book that's a no no. Don't you understand that NOTHING happens unless a woman allows it to , ( except in the case of rape of course ).
I never said the guy is innocent of anything. He is committing adultery. He is also a home wrecker in another sense.
So please don't misunderstand me. The bottom line is that there shouldn't be another woman period.
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I understand. I guess my thought was more on the random side, a tangent to the home wrecker thing, and not really directed at you. I think it's more of a societal thing.....yes, it takes two to tango and both are responsible, BUT "home wrecker" puts all the blame on the woman......when the truth is that AT LEAST half of the blame is on the guy, and if the guy is presenting himself as single the whole time, I'd say it's 100% his fault and the OW is as much of a victim.....of course again these are random thoughts and I'm not even referring to the OP in my scenario/reply.