It must be awful tough to have no one to turn to. I'm sorry to hear you are this unsupported. I agree with thorne that having the reliable income of SSDI can reduce a lot if stress.

My sig. other lives in a low income senior housing complex. It is privately owned, but has a HUD affiliation. Senior by their definition is age 62 and up. They do a strict background check, and it is one of the safest, most crime-free places I've ever been. It truly is a sanctuary for the vulnerable. Though it says "senior" on the sign in front, they take in a limited percentage of young persons on disability. They have some nice younger adults living here on that basis. It may be that other senior complexes do this also. It's the sort of thing you would never know, unless you asked. In my experience, senior complexes are much calmer and safer.