your daughter's bathroom breaks will be the significant ones. she has to smoke, or shoot it up, somewhere.....

i know i'm blunt. i've had the experience and i worked for years and years with substance abuse patients. talking to them doesn't work..(i finally switched to mental health patients)..they have to want to quit on their own. and to do that, they have to be so down that they can't see anything to do but quit. "bottom out" is what it is called. AND parents have to bottom out also. when you get tired enough of it, it will all come together for you. good luck, pat

p.s., i realize that you have high expectations for this trip. as someone who has been there, i hope it goes well and all of your wishes come true.....xoxox pat